
Widows’ fire, as described by young widows, is a disorienting, intense, and unwelcome surge of sexual desire occurring after partner loss. Internal conflict can arise as widows’ fire collides with grief norms, loyalty to the deceased, as well as cultural and personal expectations about when, how, and with whom sexual desire is appropriate. This presentation will describe research exploring how sexuality—a core component of identity—may be disrupted and restructured by the experience of widow’s fire. Specific intervention paradigms and techniques will be presented, highlighting the necessity of an embodied approach to bereavement care with young widows.
Learning Objectives:
- Describe the phenomenon of widows’ fire and its emotional, relational, and embodied components as identified in qualitative research with young widows.
- Explain how internalized grief norms, sexual scripts, and identity disruption contribute to the experience of shame and isolation in post-loss sexual reawakening.
- Apply clinical strategies to support clients navigating sexuality after premature partner loss.
About the Presenters:

Liza Barros-Lane, PhD, MSW, is an Assistant Professor of Social Work at the University of Houston-Downtown and founder of The Young Widowhood Project. Widowed at 36 just months after joining UHD, she pivoted her research to focus on the emotional, social, and embodied experiences of young widows. Her work explores identity, sexuality, and disenfranchised grief, including widows’ fire—the sudden resurgence of sexual desire after loss. She has published in Death Studies, OMEGA, and the Journal of Loss and Trauma, and has presented at national and international conferences. Liza is committed to bridging the gap between research and practice through accessible and socially conscious grief education. She shares her work on Instagram and Facebook @the_widowed_researcher and hosts the podcast WidowPod: The Stories and Research of Young Widowhood.

Sarah Vollmann, DSW, MPS, ATR-BC, LICSW, is a registered, board-certified art therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and researcher. She is a faculty member of the Portland Institute for Loss and Transition, and the Associate Director of The Young Widowhood Project. She maintains a private practice specializing in grief and traumatic loss and is the Lead Counselor at Buckingham Browne & Nichols School. Dr. Vollmann has published articles and book chapters about grief, and co-authored a recent book entitled Born Into Loss: Shadows of a Deceased Sibling and Family Journeys of Grief. She presents nationally and internationally on art therapy, grief, and bereavement.

Lucas Sanchez, DSW, LCSW, is a clinical social worker, educator, and researcher whose work explores the intersection of trauma, grief, and meaning making. He discovered his passion for research on young widowhood during his doctoral studies, which examined the complex dimensions of sexuality, traumatic bereavement, and meaning reconstruction following the loss of a partner. His current research focuses on the existential impact of off-time partner loss and the profound sense of alienation that often follows. Dr. Sanchez remains actively engaged in clinical practice, teaching, and ongoing research, committed to deepening our understanding and appreciation of the young widowhood experience.
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